结婚marriage

对我来说，
Duì wǒ lái shuō,
In my opinion,

我觉得在中国，结婚不是两个人的事，
wǒ juéde zài Zhōngguó, jiéhūn búshì liǎng gè rén de shì,
I think in China, marriage is not a matter just between two people,

而是两个家庭的事。
ér shì liǎng gè jiātíng de shì.
it's about two families.

所以如果有一个外国人决定和一个中国人结婚，
Suǒyǐ rúguǒ yǒu yí gè wàiguó rén juédìng hé yí gè Zhōngguó rén jiéhūn,
So if a foreigner decides to marry a Chinese,

我会非常佩服他们。
Wǒ huì fēicháng pèifú tāmen.
I would admire them very much.

因为这需要的不只是爱，还有理解和包容。
Yīnwèi zhè xūyào de bùzhǐ shì ài, hái yǒu lǐjiě hé bāoróng.
Because it requires not only love, but also understanding and acceptance.

你知道为什么吗？
Nǐ zhīdào wèishénme ma?
Do you know why?