mán
互相埋
hù xiāng mán
to blame each other; to complain about each other
落（lào）埋
luò (lào) mán
to fall behind and be blamed; to be left behind and complained about
只能怪你自己没有处理好，不能埋别人。另见870页mái。
zhǐ néng guài nǐ zì jǐ méi yǒu chǔ lǐ hǎo, bù néng mán bié rén. lìng jiàn 870 yè mái.
You can only blame yourself for not handling it well, you can't blame others. See also page 870 mái.